Maintaining a Healthy Sex Life with Intermittent Catheterization
Published 2023/10/05
Intermittent catheterization (IC) is a bladder management technique that involves draining the bladder manually using a catheter. It is a common and effective way to manage bladder dysfunction in people with a variety of conditions, including spinal cord injuries, multiple sclerosis, and bladder cancer.
While IC can be a convenient and effective way to manage bladder function, it can also raise concerns about maintaining a healthy sex life. Some people may worry that IC will make them feel self-conscious or that it will interfere with sexual activity.
However, it is important to remember that IC does not have to prevent people from having a satisfying sex life. With a little planning and communication, people who use IC can enjoy a full and active sex life.
Here are some tips for maintaining a healthy sex life with IC:
Talk to your partner
It is important to talk to your partner about your IC routine and any concerns you may have about sex. Your partner may have questions or concerns of their own. By talking openly and honestly, you can work together to find ways to make sex enjoyable for both of you.
Plan ahead
If you are going to be having sex, it is a good idea to plan ahead. This means emptying your bladder just before sex and having a catheter and lubricant readily available. You may also want to avoid sex if you have a urinary tract infection (UTI).
Be creative
There are many different ways to have sex without penetration. If you are concerned about leaking urine, you can try different positions or use a barrier method such as a condom. You can also talk to your partner about trying new things in the bedroom.
Don’t be afraid to experiment
It may take some time and experimentation to find what works best for you and your partner. Don’t be afraid to try different things and see what feels good.
Here are some specific tips for having sex with a partner while using IC:
Empty your bladder just before sex
This will help to reduce the risk of leakage.
Have a catheter and lubricant readily available
If you need to empty your bladder during sex, you can use a catheter. You may also want to use lubricant to reduce friction and discomfort.
Avoid sex if you have a UTI
UTIs can increase the risk of infection and make sex uncomfortable.
Be creative
There are many different ways to have sex without penetration. If you are concerned about leaking urine, you can try different positions or use a barrier method such as a condom.
Don’t be afraid to experiment
It may take some time and experimentation to find what works best for you and your partner.
If you are having difficulty maintaining a healthy sex life with IC, talk to your healthcare professional. They may be able to offer additional tips and support.
It is important to remember that you are not alone. There are many people who use IC and still have satisfying sex lives. With a little planning and communication, you can too.
Reference Section
- Link, PW, et al. “Sexual satisfaction of men and women using intermittent catheterization.” Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy 12.2 (1986): 107-115.
- McMahon, S, et al. “Maintaining a healthy sex life with intermittent catheterization: A guide for men and women.” Spinal Cord Injury Association. 2018.
- National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases. “Intermittent catheterization.” 2023.
- Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS). “Sexuality and bladder control.” 2023.
These references provide information on the benefits and challenges of intermittent catheterization, as well as tips for maintaining a healthy sex life while using IC.